5 Hearing From Lois
Buses were usually full, so people hung on wherever they could. 5 We Hear From Lois Rich and I were excited to be going to Pakistan for two years. I loved that Rich shared my sense of adventure, and together we would have the opportunity to live and travel in the subcontinent. We expected new experiences, and we were not disappointed. Pakistan was mind expanding, colorful, fascinating, and exotic. It was also overwhelming. We saw and experienced many things that were entirely new to us. At first, the constant novelty was exciting. But the longer we stayed, the more difficult it became to relax. Little by little, stress accumulated. One of the hardest things for me was living in the midst of so much visible suffering. Suffering is part of life, but most of the time our lives are carefully constructed so that we are not aware of it. We choose comfort, beauty, familiarity, and people who make us feel safe. In Pakistan, suffering was not hidden away. It was everywhere. In the late 1970s, P...